 A picture paints a thousand words, so does appropriate ACTION when speaking. Some research findings support that non-verbal communication can be a lot more effective in sending across a message than mere words. And when the action of the speaker is not in sync with his/her words, the audience tends to believe in what he/she sees rather than hears.  It is therefore important to remember, content is not all, non-verbal cues play an important role in determining whether a is trustworthy, reliable and confident. Present yourself in the way you want others to see you.
“Effective communication is 20% what you know and 80% how you feel about what you know.” -Jim Rohn Talking like Ted is not impossible, public speaking fear can be conquered and skills can be developed. Be prepared to talk like Ted today!
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We talk about knowing your audience in the last blog, when you know your audiences you can tailor your speech to suit the audience so they can relate with you, with what you say and with your ideas. Be authentic when you speak. What does that mean? It means.. 1. Be comfortable- Be yourself. If you can’t, the audience won’t be as well. This include being able to laugh at yourself (sometimes). I know of someone who made a mistake on stage and when he realized the mistake, instead of trying to cover up, he joked that it was a purposeful mistake to see who is awake and who is not. Turn an embarrassing moment into a light heated one and the audience will warm up to you.  2. Be ‘personal’ by relating a personal story on the issue and the situation you are speaking about. Personal story sells. And being vulnerable enough to share your story is a way to be authentic. This not only creates a trust bond, it establishes credibility.  3. Be natural - Be yourself, relax, like how you are always relaxed when you present your ideas and thoughts to your friends and family members. Why not on stage and to strangers as well?  |
Amy TayAmy is a facilitator at SOS with extensive experience in the field of public speaking. She has participated in numerous speech contest & coached individuals from all levels of the workforce. Her expertise can definitely assist your journey of becoming a confident & effective speaker. Archives
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